Today's lecture titled *WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE*

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Today's lecture titled *WHEN MARRIAGE IS A MISTAKE*

Most times when a *marriage is in trouble* , people tend to see their Marriage as a *mistake* rather than seeing the *mistakes they are making*  in their marriage.

At this point they regret marrying their wife or husband, begin to think of a new partner, imagine marrying their ex or fantasizing a marriage without issues.

Most times when a *marriage is in trouble* , people tend to see their Marriage as a *mistake* rather than seeing the *mistakes they are making*  in their marriage.

Some even divorce or remarry and later wish they had *remained* with their first Spouse, as they find greater trouble in the new spouse.

This is because *the first marriage was not a mistake,* and the mistake has not been discovered yet.

So divorce or separation is not a solution to consider when you are having problems with your marriage.

So you can remarry as many times as you like, you will still experience problems in marriage until you discover the mistakes you are making in your marriage and correct them.

When your car has a flat tyre, you do not abandon it, but change the tyre and move on.

When a bulb blows out in the room we do not change the room or the house, we replace the bulb and light up the room.

When we have a headache, no matter how excruciating, we do not cut off the head but take care of the headache.

When we have challenges at work, we do not refuse to go to work, we go there to solve the problems.

So when marriage has an issue, we don't have to try to change the spouse instead try to change the *attitude* that is creating the problem in the marriage.

The reason is that some people have worked on their marriage *by paying the necessary price* and that is why they are enjoying the fruits of their labour. 

*It is said, “The way you make your bed is the way you will lie on it”.*

Most times when we see some couples enjoying their marriages and enjoying each other to the fullest, we admire and cherish them, but the opposite is seen in our own marriage.

Your marriage is as *good* or as *sweet* as you make it. Some couples, because of the *negative things* they are seeing in their marriage, accuse each other of being responsible.

*It is not so, your marriage was not a mistake,* *but you are the mistake.*

They will be pointing  accusing fingers at each other for being responsible. Some even say many bad things about their spouse, even *calling him or her names;* some think that marrying that man or that woman was a mistake.

1. Your *habit* is the   mistake

2. Your *character* is the mistake

3. Your *manner, anger, unforgiveness, laziness, lack of love, lack of affection, lack of attention, impatience, bitterness, selfishness, ignorance, stinginess, not being considerate, infidelity and lovelessness are the mistakes.*

Talking about bitterness. Some still dream of a marriage with their ex seeing your spouse as a stumbling block. *Wake up* to the smell of coffee. Be *content* with your spouse. That *behavior* is your mistake.

May Almighty God bless all marriages

So *get up now* and *build your marriage* because it is not a mistake.

 *Divorce or separation* are never an options.

Thank you for your time to read this noble lecture on marriage.

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